Monday, February 14, 2011

Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens.

Assalamualaikum,

My dearie readers......

I'm writing here in order to say something.  I'm writing in order to say my opinion in a positive way. Nowadays, people tend to say what they want to say in blog. they shout out the harsh words, saying bad thing about others, framing others also being emotional in the blog. When I blogwalking from one blog to other, I saw lots of new colours, full with happiness and also veangence also bad words about others.

Yes, that is their blog. What can I say.  As one of my friend said, actually she is taking PHD now in psychology and already a psychology doctor, said that from writing we know about that person, his or her way of thinking. She also said that people will be emotional in blog in a way to express their anger toward others by shouting, using exaggeration words in the blog. That kind of person may lead to the risk of mental illness. This is not what I said, this is what my friend said. Dr Juanita, thank you very much for giving me lots of advice about being patient and positive. I'll treat you later!

From the blog also, we can see the mind of the writer, positive or not. Actually Dr Juanita is my fellow friend in diploma. She's really into psychology. So, beware, what you write is what you think. Don't lead yourself to the risk of mental ilnesses......

17 comments:

  1. salam. that's why we have to be extra careful with our words, either spoken or written.

    people are observing. people are reading. not just our writings, but our behaviour too.

    write something not nice and that might shoo a potential husband material away, for example. It's certainly not the risk worth taking for right? :)

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  2. @gadisBungayes, they said that is their blog, they can say whatever they want but they don
    t know, people are judging...

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  3. so it must think that other people's feelings..

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  4. @DiaUmaiNiNazyes, don't just write without thinking and being selfish...

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  5. so..it is not good for one person to be making an entry full of anger or any negative feeling? will u asked Dr Juanita to be more exact on how it can lead toward mental illness..i just want to learn more.. i like to further my study in psychology.. :)

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  6. @Nurul Afifah Addnanyes, i will ask her for your sake and i will explain about it in the next post...

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  7. yupp , actually we cannot write that way . becoz it may hurt other people feelings right ? even writer tak tuju kat sape2 pon .

    it will shows the writer attitude :)

    trying to write & speak in english..hehe broken pon broken lah .. :P

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  8. @tomatothat is tru, thank you miss tomato...

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  9. even though writing anything in the blog is individual's right, but the writer should think and consider the consequences on what will he/she write..

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  10. salam..

    hati kita menyapa dalam diam...

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  11. mental illness..another writer's disorder..beware!

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  12. yes, dari segi cara penulisan seseorang kita boleh lihat tahap mana ilmunya :)

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  13. salam

    jadi diri sendiri, tulis utk kepuasan diri.itu penting.

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  14. @asybedazzlebetul,sbb tulah klau kutuk n mengata org, kte boleh tgk mcm mana pemikiran si penulis blog tu...

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  15. salam ayuni...hehe. result GA pukul 10.00 am...abg eq set je dulu...

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Salam, thank you very much for speaking your mind..........

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